“But now, O LORD, thou art our father; we are the clay, and thou our potter; and we all are the work of thy hand.” (Isaiah 64:8)

Every day we influence those around us whether we intend to or not. The things we say and do, intentionally or unintentionally, will leave an impression on those we interact with, either directly or peripherally. Unless we live as hermits, we can’t help this. What we do have control over, however, is whether or not that impression is positive or negative; uplifting or destructive.

Face it, we can always try to show others what we want them to see, but this will last only for a little time. Eventually, the real nature of who we are will come through — and that is why we need to define — and accept — who we are and what we need to change. I know I preach self-evaluation often, but that is because it is pivotal to who we want to become and who God wants us to be.

People can change; we can change. It’s all about believing in ourselves and in others. God can touch anyone’s heart and spirit, especially if we ask. God tells us to simply ask for what we need, be it wisdom, patience or forgiveness. Just as we should never give up on others, we should not give up on ourselves. We may not be right now all we would like to be, but change is perpetual. The important thing is to keep ourselves evolving and make sure whatever changes we make are changes for the better.
Phillips Brooks, a noted clergyman and author of the 19th century, once said, “Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process.”

We strive throughout our lives to better our careers, our homes, our health, our relationships, even our bowling scores (okay, that one might just be me), so why not our character? And we do not need to go it alone. Who knows better how to mold and create good character more than God?

“A GOOD name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold.” (Proverbs 22:1)

We should never settle for who we are at the moment. We also should never use the Popeye cop out, “I yam what I yam.” In other words, take me or leave me. We should never be afraid of change and of facing what we need to change within ourselves.
One of the best influences we can have on others is for them to see us admit our faults, ask forgiveness and then see us trying to do better. And even better than that is for them to witness us admitting we can’t do it alone and know we are not too proud to pray for help.

Debra Robillard can be reached at drobillard@palltimes.com
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